actuallynotazoophileok, I lied 2 points on 2016-01-31 16:13:17
Its probably easiest if you just say you are still a virgin.
AXwoofCanines + 2 points on 2016-01-31 16:47:06
Don't worry about that. I would give you this advice:
If someone asks what your first sexual experience was, simply say "I licked a pussy once". Then better avoid further questions!
AXwoofExclusive 1 point on 2016-02-01 12:25:52
Since the question was deleted, I'll explain my response: Person asked if he's still a virgin if he performed oral on a cat. And I used the chance to make a little wordplay/joke. :P
Swibblestein 2 points on 2016-01-31 18:40:50
The term virgin is rather vague and does not really have very much meaning. It's very subjective.
If we're going to say that the term has any meaning, I propose the meaning to be something like "a person who feels they've not yet fully realized their sexuality". Do you feel like this was a major factor in your sexuality, such that you no longer consider yourself a virgin? No? Well then you still are. Yes, then you're not.
I can't see how the term would have any meaning outside of that.
furvert_tailEquine, large canid 1 point on 2016-01-31 19:12:22
"a person who feels they've not yet fully realized their sexuality"
If that's the definition, then I recon everyone's a virgin until their grandkids leave for college. :P
Swibblestein 2 points on 2016-01-31 19:39:49
Well maybe I didn't phrase it right. I more meant, if you feel like you haven't had the sort of sexual experience that was very satisfying... If you still feel yourself longing to "know what it's like"... It's a bit hard to phrase, but even so I think it's a better definition than the current one.
SusitarCanidae 1 point on 2016-01-31 19:46:38
While obviously this oral sex (same species or not) is a sexual experience, which would make it hard to argue that one is a virgin... Do people still care about virginity?
I mean, sex is just another activity. We don't try to the strictly define "the first time swimming", "the first time dancing", etc in the same way.
If someone asks if you're a virgin, you can always say something like what AXwoof suggests, or something even more vague. "Well, I did this ONE thing, but I'm not very experienced I guess", and if they ask for details, just say it's too personal.
Trying to wait for one specific moment to be when you lose your virginity "for real" is pointless in my opinion. People feel different about different types of sex. And you are not a different person just for having sex once.
zetacolaLoba 1 point on 2016-02-01 00:05:18
Do people still care about virginity?
Oh yeah. It's particularly a problem when trying to pursue relationships with humans as you get older, but it's a general stigma. Saying you are virgin instantly rings a bell to other people. Something is not normal with you.
wright-oneursidae canidae pantherinae 1 point on 2016-01-31 20:35:40
as has been said, virginity is very subjective. i don't consider myself to have lost my virginity 'til only a few years ago .. and i'm no spring chicken .. because i had never had penetrative sex before. but that might just be an old-fashioned view of virginity. dunno. fact is, i had sexual contact that was pretty close to what one would call sex ("outercourse", i guess) .. so i suppose you could say that's when i lost my virginity, but i don't feel that i really knew what sex was like back then because i had never "dipped my pen in ink" before.
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Its probably easiest if you just say you are still a virgin.
Don't worry about that. I would give you this advice:
If someone asks what your first sexual experience was, simply say "I licked a pussy once". Then better avoid further questions!
Since the question was deleted, I'll explain my response: Person asked if he's still a virgin if he performed oral on a cat. And I used the chance to make a little wordplay/joke. :P
The term virgin is rather vague and does not really have very much meaning. It's very subjective.
If we're going to say that the term has any meaning, I propose the meaning to be something like "a person who feels they've not yet fully realized their sexuality". Do you feel like this was a major factor in your sexuality, such that you no longer consider yourself a virgin? No? Well then you still are. Yes, then you're not.
I can't see how the term would have any meaning outside of that.
If that's the definition, then I recon everyone's a virgin until their grandkids leave for college. :P
Well maybe I didn't phrase it right. I more meant, if you feel like you haven't had the sort of sexual experience that was very satisfying... If you still feel yourself longing to "know what it's like"... It's a bit hard to phrase, but even so I think it's a better definition than the current one.
While obviously this oral sex (same species or not) is a sexual experience, which would make it hard to argue that one is a virgin... Do people still care about virginity?
I mean, sex is just another activity. We don't try to the strictly define "the first time swimming", "the first time dancing", etc in the same way.
If someone asks if you're a virgin, you can always say something like what AXwoof suggests, or something even more vague. "Well, I did this ONE thing, but I'm not very experienced I guess", and if they ask for details, just say it's too personal.
Trying to wait for one specific moment to be when you lose your virginity "for real" is pointless in my opinion. People feel different about different types of sex. And you are not a different person just for having sex once.
Oh yeah. It's particularly a problem when trying to pursue relationships with humans as you get older, but it's a general stigma. Saying you are virgin instantly rings a bell to other people. Something is not normal with you.
as has been said, virginity is very subjective. i don't consider myself to have lost my virginity 'til only a few years ago .. and i'm no spring chicken .. because i had never had penetrative sex before. but that might just be an old-fashioned view of virginity. dunno. fact is, i had sexual contact that was pretty close to what one would call sex ("outercourse", i guess) .. so i suppose you could say that's when i lost my virginity, but i don't feel that i really knew what sex was like back then because i had never "dipped my pen in ink" before.
shrug