Hopeless (self.zoophilia)
submitted 2016-06-25 13:27:22 by peacheslala97
I posted my seeking advice thing to actually here good advice but instead it seems to have drawn in the trolls and caused a small bit of in-fighting. So much for me getting better and moving forward with my life :(. I was actually truly happy today but now I just feel depressed and like giving up.
Unfortunately one shitty thing about our community is we are no time soon going to stop seeing trolls around here. You just gotta keep in mind that they are working off of biased opinions to reenforce everything they say while we, on the other hand, can disprove whatever crap they try to shovel with logic. It can be frustrating and draining sometimes but you just gotta keep your mind on your goals and succeed past their negativity.
If you needa talk to someone feel free to PM me and we can chat :)
https://www.reddit.com/r/SuicideWatch/comments/4psloa/disowned_and_depressed_i_hope_i_die/
I don't know I just feel so horrible today
We are here for you...I know how terrible it feels to be afraid and to feel alone and hated. You will pull through. You can make it. If you want to PM I am here too.
Don't give up.
I did though :(
Well I'm glad you are still alive.
Trying to get back to that point.....being happy to be alive.
You should not let trolls from /r/PublicHealthWatch get to you. They say similarly hateful thing to people in the LGBT+ communities. But look at where the LGBT community in general is today. Sure, there are problems left, but a lot of the hate towards them has been beaten.
Think about it this way: Often enough the people who feel the need to express their hate in such ways do not hate you as a zoophile, but sexuality that's not the norm. Maybe all this stupid slippery slope talk about "gay marriage will lead to bestiality" will eventually be recognized for what it is: That people who say this shit put homosexuality and zoophilia in the same category and hate them both, when the sensible thing would be to hate neither.
It wasn't just that I had a bad encounter with /u/thylanelover69 ego called me a rapist yet he watches child porn in the dark website. He wants to be accepted but hates me for not preying like he does. It still makes me angry.
I'd really love for you to show me where I said I watch child porn, or where I said I'd hurt someone if I didn't watch it. I don't look at it. I won't take that risk. All I ever said was that no one can get hurt by someone watching it if they don't know someone is watching it. Their pain comes from the fact that it happened and that it's out there for people to see.
Animals don't engage in sex with humans of their own free will. I'm sorry, but you can't tell me any animal that walks up to a human and says "bugger me" or "can I bugger you?"
Where's your proof? Or are you just speaking out of bias and your own personal feelings?
I'm going to send this message to both you and thylanelover69;
First off, I respect you both. You both have points that you have established, and I think that the accusations from PHW and some of the cringe subs are fraying some nerves.
I can't tell either of you what to do, you're both adults and I wouldn't presume to know better than either of you. But I know that whenever something is discussed in a public forum and a debate occurs, both sides might tend to get their hackles up unless they're just in it for the game of rhetoric.
Please, if you're going to disagree, discuss these things in a PM between one-another. Make sure to take a deep breath and chill before you establish communication.
If this continues either in our sub or this one, you both will end up waxing antipathy at one another.
It's possible that there are misconceptions being thrown out in abundance.
Where's my proof? How about every psychiatric community on the planet that says it's an abnormal behavior for humans to engage in sexual relations with animals.
Personally, I don't have anything against you as a person. I don't even know you. But when you come to our sub and attack us, you have to expect to be taken to task.
I only took issue with you and people who think child porn is safe and harmless! Maybe learn to read next time before you comment!
You want to be accepted yet you don't accept sexual minorities and denigrate them! I said I had no issues with pedophiles but of course you skipped past that, I was civil when I said I supported pedophiles but that I didn't support harmful practices like child porn and I was speaking about you.
And yes you are biased against me because I'm a zoophile and you think something is wrong with me because of my attraction to animals. You're no better than anti-pedophiles.
Once again, you speak with lack of knowledge of what I said. I never said child porn is safe and harmless. I said, it is not harmful to the person that was involved in it if they don't know someone is watching it at a particular, specific time. Like the age old saying goes, "what you don't know can't hurt you." I specifically said it was harmful when the abuse/recording of abuse occurred, and knowing that it's out there for people to see.
I accept sexual minorities. I accept, transgender, gay, bi, lesbian, queer, and any other sexuality that involves humans. You are correct though, I don't accept people having sex with animals. I think it's just as disgusting as a majority of people think my sexuality is. You really shouldn't take it personally though, as I would feel this way about any person that is attracted to animals or any other species, not just you. I don't have a problem with you, I have a problem with the lifestyle in general.
Wow he even followed you here to harass you. Maybe he should be banned here considering he has no problem harassing a sucidual person telling you "to not be offended while I harass you".
He probably cheered when he read about me trying to kill myself, probably figures one less freak to worry about. He claims I'm a pariah in society yet continues treating me like one. Yet he complains because I took issue with the comments HE DELETED to save face. Hypocrite. Yet tons of psychiatrists think pedophiles are sick yet he makes no mention of that. Of course he just wants to be right while bullying someone he considers lower than him. I'm not sure how /u/throwawaychilder puts up with him, especially the lying part. I know childer wants everyone to voice their opinions and he's presented himself as a good and helpful person but I know he doesn't tolerate troublemakers and lately /u/thylanelover69 has been acting in that manner. Otherwise why would he have come all the way here just to belittle me in a zoophile sub-reddit? When I made my post on pedofriends I was civil and simply said I didn't hate it feel disgusted by pedophiles but some of the people on pedofriends and their comments disturbed me. So I said I wasn't sure I could support them. I didn't go there calling them all monsters and evil and how I hated their lifestyle. But lanlover did. Yet he claims not to have a problem with me personally but he has only ADDRESSED me so far. He hasn't talked to any other zoophiles just me so yeah he does have a problem with me personally. Way to kick a person while they're down 😢 real big tough guy move. He'll probably reply back to this with more mocking and insults, it's all he's good at anyway.
I never deleted a single post.
I didn't "follow" you here. You tagged my name and made up lies, so I defended myself.
I never would have said a word to you if you hadn't replied to one of my posts in the first place, making false allegations.
The only reason I have addressed only you, is because you addressed me, no one else from this community has.
You continue to make false allegations and then try to make it seem like you're the one telling the truth.
Like I said, I don't have a personal problem with you. I have a problem with the lies you tell though. I have a problem with the zoophile sexuality, but you don't see me coming to this sub and making any other posts except to reply to you making things up about me that aren't true.
Now we can call a truce, and you can stop mentioning me and making things up, and you'll never hear from again. I only reply when false accusations are made. Deal?
I'm going to send this message to both you and peacheslala97;
First off, I respect you both. You both have points that you have established, and I think that the accusations from PHW and some of the cringe subs are fraying some nerves.
I can't tell either of you what to do, you're both adults and I wouldn't presume to know better than either of you. But I know that whenever something is discussed in a public forum and a debate occurs, both sides might tend to get their hackles up unless they're just in it for the game of rhetoric.
Please, if you're going to disagree, discuss these things in a PM between one-another. Make sure to take a deep breath and chill before you establish communication.
If this continues either in our sub or this one, you both will end up waxing antipathy at one another.
It's possible that there are misconceptions being thrown out in abundance.
I get your point and I respect your opinion. I posted a reply to peaches before reading this one from you.
I'm sure there is some emotional bias in our discussions because of the fact that both of us are thought of as pariahs by the majority of society, yet we call each other the same things we get called by society.
Yes. And if names start getting thrown out, even I would start getting pissed, were it to happen to me.
Thank you :)
Bleh, I faux pas'd.
If any user is really bothering you then block them. You don't need any negativity especially if you are sucidual.
He'll just make another account
Has he really been bothering you like that? That is unfortunate. If he wasn't a hypocrite he would stop.
It's weird hearing the same things people say about pedophiles being said about me :(
I didn't even insult all pedophiles.
I think it is projection. The guy you were arguing with is a sex offender he had sexual contact with a little girl. Doesn't feel any remorse.
They feel better making you lower on the "hierarchy", they need to feel superior to somebody.
You think it could be projection?
Yup. They want to believe that they are "healthier" and "normal" compared to you. That guy you were being harassed by probably feels even more powerless than most because he actually was convicted for a crime and now a registered sex offender. I notice that other pedophiles very are sexist, racist, homophobic etc. For some neing a bigot makes people feel power despite being seen as less than.
You are a goddamn saint. :D
If you need to talk to someone, you can IM me.
Not that I feel all good and happy.
Just want you to know you're not alone
Yeah, I feel you...
Ok I know I'm not exactly you guy's most favorite person here but I still hate to say this but I think she's gone. Plus she posted in /r/pedofriends and it seemed to really bother her and be the trigger so to speak that drove her to perhaps take her own life.
I am truly sorry about that however. I may disagree strongly with zoophiles but this......this is just fucked up and I really hope she didn't kill herself but I have the bad feeling that she did.
I tried to kill myself but it didn't work out so well.
Oh no........umm you're good now though right? Seems like you're improving.