Have you met another zoo in person? (self.zoophilia)
submitted 2016-11-07 21:37:04 by rabbitkiller24
Have you ever met another zoo? By chance (not likely lol)? Or through the Internet? Through a forum?
I'm just curious. I like to imagine one day I fall into conversation and find out someone I know shares my interest. But I think that's almost impossible.
Ive met 7 or 8 zoos in person via the internet and I plan to meet many more in the future. One of those people actually ended up being my roommate for several months. You just gotta meet friends you click with and trust.
As for meeting people by chance, one of the people I came out to said they used to sexually stimulate their old female dog for her pleasure but they're not pursuing that anymore.
Were you ever worried about meeting any of those 8 people? Was it all at once like a planned meetup, or separately? I want to meet someone like me, but the whole idea scares me tbh
I wasn't ever worried I'd get outed or anything, but I was worried things would end up super awkward(for the record I never met up with anybody to have sex with their animal, just to meet them obv). The 8 people is several meetups over the course of the past 2 years. Some I met separate and some I met in small groups. Everyone I met id talked to regularly for several months beforehand, so I really got to know them.
Yes, a Zoo friend actually recused me. We meet on Kik first and got chatting, I hit a slump and they drove 5 hours and picked me and my puppy up.
I stayed with them for a week that didn't involve anything sexual, but she's coming back but to stay at mine and have some doggy fun.
I think that was a rare moment, but worked out well.
And I'll be bringing presents too!
You sneaky!!! You don't have too!! :( But not like I can stop you..
I recently met a couple at a furry convention. It was fun just hanging out and discussing it. Also, on a slightly unrelated note, I participated very slightly in a furpile. Not the most dignified thing in the world, but it was a lot of fun, in the same way I might imagine an ancient Greek orgy to be.
Furpile: sounds fun.
Ditto, I've met six or eight in the local furry community. Not so much with the furpile :)
At PAW? :) Or somewhere else?
Elsewhere. Good times were had by all.
do you mind me asking how? I might be going to my first one soon
A lot of furries are on telegram chat, consider getting an account and searching for "furry telegram groups." That database isn't up to date, but there's lots of good stuff on it, no matter what peels your banana.
thanks :)
true.
I was invited. Met them through BF. My advice would be to go there, say you're going, and ask about others in the area. I'd also recommend getting to know them a little through PMs, if you have time. Just be safe, meet publicly, and don't expect anything more than conversation.
I would be worried that people would recognize me, and then pester me online about it. My family is almost all furs, and yeh, that'd be super awkward.
Imagine my dad reading FA and be like, I seen someone saying you're a zoo. "omg your family is fur, how awesome" no its not always awesome
I've never heard of a multigenerational furry family. Is it awkward in any way? I honestly don't know.
well, my parents don't really show their fetishes, tho they told us to be very open minded. (honestly, I don't want to know what they're into, I'm pretty sure they have porn of them together somewhere)
Neither will I post any fetishes, or fetish related stuff, I just don't want them to know.
It's fun tho, going to a fur convention as family, people always are a bit surprised when you hang out with your dad (and this can feel awkward). yo, I'm almost 30 and I go on holiday with me dad and mom
My parents don't even know I'm a therian, so there is that. I just don't want them to know, like, I don't know why I'm so uncomfortable with it tho. It's my life and I want a bit privacy. (I do live on my own)
I haven't met any zoos in person, though several non-zoos in real life know I am a zoo.
Never have, I want to so I could have someone to talk about this in real life, but I don't because they might expose me.
Probably close to a hundred over the last 10 years.
Thats alot of people. Were you ever afraid of being outed? It only takes one bad person to cause issues. I'd imagine everyone had to be vetted or be a "friend of a friend".
I was only really afraid at the start. Past that, I came to realize a few things:
Just meeting people isn't really all that risky anyways. It's not as though I'm handing them a copy of my birth certificate or whatnot. :)
The people I've met have always been either people I've already gotten to know pretty well, or friends of people I'd already met. It's not like they're total strangers. If they were just trying to trap someone, they would long since have moved on to someone easier!
I have meet up with four other zoo's in person, three of those lead to lots of great sexy time for all involved ;). The other we just kind of hung out and bsed.
Nice. Been trying to meet other zoo's...
The main issue is finding them in your area that are willing to hang out.
Yeah that's been a challenge.
never give up
Not planning on it :)
awesome, thats what i love to hear.
Yes - one. I'd be willing to meet with a second one as well. But in both cases it's been after I've known them for... a very long time. Years, at least.
Where do you guys even meet people?...
Is everyone here on beastforum and just too ashamed of admitting it?
There's something called pms that some people use to get to know each other more privately. You may have heard of them.
I have a standing invite to one actual zoo meet, but several real life disabilities prevent me from attending.
And no, the meet is not sexual in nature. It's actaully just a pretty conventional bi-yearly bbq.
mph... Guess I haven't had a lot of luck.
I'm not sure how long you have waited... but for me, it took 6 years and well over 200 emails exchanged before I got a date and address. I would not expect much less. Don't go to it looking for a meet. Go to it looking for a friend.
I have met other zoos on several occasions. It's great to have folks to talk with in person about being zoo!
No.
I'm not looking for human friends anyways so meeting another one in my life is less than 1% chance.
Also, how does one even meet another one?
Who just tells others that they like to fuck animals?
And meeting one online to meet them irl isn't exactly safe either.
It's safe if you have a genuine long-standing relationship with them
I still don't understand how one finds out that someone else is a zoophile.
You must have alot of friends.
I mean, what are the chances? 000000.01%?!
Man, you probably live in an utopia to have friends like that.
If I told any person that I've been friends with for years, my dog and our friendship would be gone the first second.
I was speaking in regard to internet friends meeting in person, my bad for lack of clarification lol.
I believe it heavily depends on your personal definition of "zoophile"... If you count every bored and disorientated teenager masturbating on anthropomorphic anime characters as a "zoo", you surely can fill a stadium with your "zoo" friends quickly. But if you sort out all of those who just are "zoos" by the mouth, but not by action, the numbers will dwindle very rapidly. Do I really have to explain why playing a "zoophile" online is a common way for shy folks to reach out for a normal human relationship? We live in a world of total interconnectivity, but yet we experience the era of total personal isolation. Our virtual friends help us fooling ourselves, helps us to fade out the fact we´re substituting real friendships, real connections, real human-on-human interaction with this virtual bullshit. Always remember: the internet...the place where women are men, men are kids and kids are undercover cops.
Well, how one finds out someone else is a zoophile? Basically the same way how you find out someone is a vegan. They will tell you if you wait a minute...remember the recent era of "special snowflakeism", too.
Whenever I read about an army of "zoo friends", I just laugh. I´m in this whole BS internet zoo community since ´91 , was reaching out to other zoos from the beginning, but have only accumulated 14 (!) people I would call both, friend and fellow zoophile.
I also know for a fact that it´s exactly that type of "zoo" who has nothing to lose because his entire "zoo life" is but a fantasy that is plunging into the forums, searching for human company. The more you have to lose, the more careful you act. Do the math, it´s as simple as that.
With some of these fantasizers, their fantasies get out of hand pretty quickly, I just have to think of a BF user named Knotdog who is insisting he has his own farm, with every type of "fuckable" animal strolling around and ready to "use", but also lives with more than 30 (!) zoophiles on his farm. He also said that he has installed two hydraulic elevating platforms in his stable to adjust his "fuckable material" in height for comfort...
For me, there´s just one way to ensure that you are actually dealing with another zoophile and that is meeting up to verify everything your potential "zoo friend" has told you. I´ve done it quite a lot in the nineties as we IRC veterans used to visit each other to ensure we´re not bullshitted by a faker/impostor/fantasizing dipshit. Guess what, it was around 90% of self proclaimed zoos that couldn´t withstand this verifying process. Several Swedish "zoos" turned out to be fuckin´ fencehoppers, others like my Austrian friend turned out to be romantic fantasizers and only one out of ten could actually prove that he has told us the truth about him and his animal(s).
It really depends if you are okay dealing with fantasizers, so called "zoos" going through a temporary phase, folks who aren´t in it for the zoophilia, but for non-judgemental community ("They fuck animals, so they won´t call me out on bein´ an awkward, socially incompetent dickface") etc... If you prefer quantity, then you surely can accumulate masses of "zoo friends". But if you prefer quality instead, you will hardly end up with more than 5-10 true fellow zoophiles. Everyone denying this has outed himself as a Category One type, preferring quantity over quality, lies over reality and made up fantasy bullshit over actual and real experience.
I did a change here and read your whole post.
There may be some kernels of truth in what you say 30-30, but it gets lost in the unshakeable fervor of certainity you have about your very questionable truths that leaves me feeling ickier than a Donald Trump rally.
I stand by what I said earlier, you're a bigot. You are ready to exclude 90% of the community under your own self defined definition. That's bigotry. The only difference in your bigotry is you happen to be attracted to your horse.
It's disgusting, painful, and it's why I single you out a lot. But that's not fair to either of us, anymore than your comment about "socially awkward" people being incompetent dickfaces is to potential autistics. I won't do that anymore, for everyones sake. It's as unfair as your comments excluding "romantic fantisizers" as if they aren't zoo. Sorry bud, I may never have fucked her but I know what I am and this term isn't yours to define anymore!
So you are officially the first person in the history of the internet I am placing on ignore. Enjoy the position.
One time he told me that autism wasn't real, so I don't think that comment will make a difference to him lol
It's comments of this nature that shows me just how out of touch he is with not just his fellow zoo, but his fellow man. It's stuff like that that reassure me that his little "campaign" will amount to nothing, and thus he is safe to ignore rather than even bother with constant logical counterarguments.
It does amuse me how he attempts to justify his position to represent us by how carnal his relations with his Mare were, particularly relative to "fakers" like me, as if being an expert in animal lovemaking somehow makes you an expert representative to the public at large.
Sadly, no.
Yes, I had a coffee with a zoo I got to know from a (now defunct) forum, several years ago. Not a very memorable experience, he wasn't much different from anyone else.
Also, my boyfriend is a non-practicing zoophile (attracted to felines). That was just by chance, although I guess the fact that we met while studying biology might explain some of it.
One of my best friends of 4 years is actually zoo. We met online and are yet to meet each other in person, even though they only live about 4hrs away. They're also currently dating a zoo, of whom I know through them :)
I've met plenty online but never in real life sadly.
I have never met any zoophile in person through the Internet. Or anybody, for that matter.
The problem with the friends I make on the Internet is that all of them live thousands of miles away from me and meeting would be very costly, even if we were all interested. Some of my Internet friends have small wallets and cannot afford to go on holiday to the opposite side of the globe. I could summon up the money, but not the time.
I find very hard to trust anybody online, and I am not talking about people within the zoophile community. I mean anybody. Many who I considered to be ok people to hang out with on IRC proved to be troublemakers or mentally unbalanced individuals. The thought of what would happen if any of those people knew who I am or where I live makes me shiver. I am not eager to meet people in meatspace unless I have known them for years and have a special connection. For me, that might be 3 or 4 people.
i think i've met 10.. one of whom is now my roommate (7 i met online first, the other 3 were friends of friends; i've never met anyone IRL who i found out was a zoo).
I have been to a couple of k9 sex meets with a combined total of 8 women and their human partners. I dated a girl i met on zooskool and we were fuckbuddies for about 3 months but never foubd her a dog. About 6 or so of my female friends and acquaintances in real life have expressed some interest, 2 of them strongly and the last 2 women i slept said they with were willing to consider k9 if we continued the relationships. Those are women who are interested in fucking dogs.. Cue usual nonsense about trying to define zoophile.
Every zoo I know, they either looked for me or I looked for them. I meet a couple in real life, one of them had sex with my boyfriend a couple of times.
I wish I could, only known one in person, and she regretted it and wouldn't talk about it.
I have met 3 by chance. Two women and one man. BUT, I have paw prints tattooed on my wrist and on my lower back. Those tat's were the common denominator in all three meetings. I got the tat's because it's a sign to other zoo's and it's sort of universal.