Hi I'm new here but I've lurked Reddit for some time now, before I got the courage to join up. Also this is the one Zoophile community that I found that didn't sound like a bunch of horny creeps who just wanna ask girls to fuck their dogs on camera or if they'll suck horse dick because "it looks hot" and all that other typical bullshit I've put up with for years. So hope I'm welcome here in the long run. I guess I should add a bit about myself then; I'm female, I'm Hispanic, I'm also bisexual and despite being somewhat attracted to some people I'm more attracted to canines. However I'm not some Tijuana girl looking for validation, I really do love animals in that way. As to how my family feels about this......well it's a work in progress. They still love me but they're not all that sold on this being a real orientation. I'm still invited to family reunions and such but I can't exactly discuss the majority of my feelings. It sucks. But as I said, work in progress. So feel free to ask me any questions, I'm not easily offended :)
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Lol I'm glad you made it to the community. I think we're all pretty mellow here for the most part. That's quite interesting that you're out to your folks; that's something that many people tend to be hesitant in doing. I personally am not, and have only opted to tell my friends. What's your favorite breed?
Good to be here! Glad to see that this is a mellow community compared to many others I've seen. Plus since posting here my inbox hasn't been flooded with messages asking if I have Skype and if I'm willing to do "shows." So I'm glad this seems to be a genuine community.
As for my being out it's still not smooth sailing. As I said in another comment that my cousin is paranoid about me being alone with his dog. To the point that he'd probably superglue his dog to him if it were a humane thing. Which hurts because we were always close. I understand you're feelings about being out to family members though.
I don't really have a breed preference but I like large breeds. Labs, Retrievers, Gun Dogs(Setters, Pointers), Guard Dogs(Rhodesian Ridgebacks, Belgian Malinois) and terrier breeds. They're typically friendlier in my opinion and are fun to spend time with and cuddle.
Cool cool. I think most people here are genuinely more interested in the animals rather than the people, haha. Though I'm all for making friends, Skype shows aren't quite the best route for that.
Being out can always be tough, as you never know what sort of assumptions people could be making. I have found that letting my friends have "AMA" sessions with me allow them to clear some things up, but some people simply will never "get it," and that's not really your problem as long as you stay safe with who you tell. I try to associate myself mainly with open-minded people, and I have done a pretty decent job of being able to tell by my intuition just in talking to them.
That's cool, I'm definitely a big dog person in theory, but both of my guys are more on the medium end at under 60lbs. I've got a husky and a pit bull, and my pit is definitely a huge snuggler lol. My husky can be too, but only on his own terms. He's more of a lay-in-the-same-room kinda dog. They're both great and compliment each other well though.
I hope I can make friends here and Skype shows definitely aren't the way to do that. Plus I could never exploit my girls like that.
When you say AMA what do you mean exactly?
Oh, by AMA I mean "ask me anything." I guess it's really only used around reddit. Yeah when I would tell my friends and after they processed it I let them ask me any questions they had to clear the air, and even read my comment history on reddit in some instances so they could understand my arguments and stuff. They didn't all come to know at once, I went to each of them individually over a period of time.
And yeah for clarification I was just joking about the Skype show thing lol. I don't think that's a good way to make friends at all, I'd feel super awkward.
I'm not sure I could do an AMA
It is interesting to know that your family is aware of your... unconventional tastes. Did you tell them, or did they find out by themselves?
I told them. They weren't really thrilled at first. And when I visit and bring my two dogs they give me weird looks. Not hateful looks but confused and somewhat weirded out looks. I wanted to be open with my family and it'll take time but they'll stop changing the subject when talking about dogs when I'm around and my cousin won't outright refuse to leave his massive Pit Bull alone if I'm in the vicinity. He doesn't hate me but he doesn't want me to do things with his dog. Which I wouldn't.
It's so silly how people automatically assume being zoo means one can't control oneself. Why should that be the case?
Anyways, welcome. I look forward to your participation in the community, if you are inclined to hang around. :)
Not long ago, it was not weird to find threads on forums and newsgroups that wondered similar things. "I found my babysitter is a lesbian. Is it safe for me to let her take care of my baby girl?" Such fear is harder to find nowadays. When people is ignorant about these sex issues, it is natural for them to have doubts, no matter how stupid they might be, because they are not familiar with the subject. Once the subject becomes common knowledge, information roams freely and there is less room for stupid doubts.
Well, most people are just dumb and assume things like this happen all the time because they don't know what zoophiles really are.
But then again, I wouldn't trust any other zoophile with my bitch.
Well, not any human actually, but especially zoophiles.
Thank the disgusting fencehoppers for my fear.
I'm sorry to hear that, but I don't honestly blame you either.
I wouldn't trust any zoophile with my animal (if I had one) either just willy nilly, FWIW. I'd need to get to know him/her first most likely. I do have a feeling the good ones outnumber the bad ones though.
I guess it because of bad press? He thinks if I'm left alone with his dog I'll immediately have sex with him or force myself on him. Or he thinks I'll make videos with his dog which I would never do as my sexual practices are private though I don't mind answering questions about my habits granted they're done so in a neutral manner and not in a "describe in detail very slowly what you do" kind of way. But I'm not joking when I say if he could superglue his dog to him whenever I'm around he'd do it. My mom is trying to understand me, my father gets weirded out anytime I say the word dog.
I get it... and yeah I think it is because of bad press. I just wish people would do a little more "critical thinking" than that, but it's often not the reality.
It takes some guts to talk openly about these issues with your family. I certainly wouldn't. My people would just try to take my animals from me or isolate me from them.
My family still treats me and my dogs well, however if I'm staying over I can't keep the dogs in the bedroom with me. Similar to how my cousin and his girlfriend aren't allowed in the same bedroom though she'll occasionally sneak in from time to time.
I wish things were easier for you and it's why I don't take my family's slight acceptance for granted.
Welcome Shastadog90. I've hated for decades how female zoophiles are viewed and treated on the majority of forums. I'm glad you find yourself comfortable here and hope that continues. I doubt that the "normal" will ever get that we are not just out to get it on with any animal we see, but like they, we fall in love with individuals, and are attracted to certain 'types' and qualities the same way they do. I hope you stick around, and hope you find closure with your family. I was outted accidently to my family some years ago, and now except for some uncomfortable jokes from a brother-in-law, it's mostly just ignored, so hope it's at least that for you, or better. I went offline a decade ago or so, because the available forums disappointed me in their wannabe, bestiality focus and for personal reasons. When I returned online I found this place and one other to be pretty laid back and topic centric to actual zoophilia with a respect to our non-human companions and partners. I hope you find this to be such a place for you.
It's been difficult really, especially when I was younger and was using MySpace. I confided in a few people that I was in love with my dog(he passed years ago sadly) and this was met with some acceptance from others and criticism and outright bullying at times. But mostly it was strange guys(who were kinda pedo-y) and women(who were also pedo-y) asking if I'd do things on cam or if I'd have a threesome with them and their husbands and do things with their dogs afterwards or if I'd be willing to leave home and live with guys who claimed they would accept me but really just wanted a girl around that they could film having sex with various animals and also have sex with. It was creepy and I was hurt by how trivial it seemed to people and how angry they would get when I said I wasn't just saying I was in love with my dog to seem cool but that I meant it. The trolls didn't help either and I'd be harassed daily, told to kill myself, that I was a whore, a stupid wetback who needed to go back to Tijuana, that I probably did Donkey Shows and other assorted bullshit like that. I'm sure everyone has heard this story a million times by now. I eventually told my family after my loves' death that I was bisexual but that I didn't love people in that way, but that I loved animals. There was a lot of shouting, some choice words, clutching of the rosary beads and the laments of Hail Marys and how could I do this to the family. But overtime things calmed down and while my family may not be waving Pro-Zoo flags they don't criticize me much anymore. It's still an uphill struggle though but I'm confident they'll come around 100% in their own time. I've never pushed the issue. I hope things go well for you and your family despite your accidental outing.
I am sorry to hear about the Internet pervs, but Internet is actually the country of the pervs and sex psychos.
The reason why people ask for videconference shows is because every now and then they get one. It is self-reinforcing behavior.
Many think we are pathetic, and that we are into animals because we have nothing better, but seriously... I know people who automatically starts asking for nude videos and pictures and videoconferences upon joining a chat or forum. Those are the pathetic ones because those are the ones who can't behave themselves.
That explain the "a bunch of horny creeps who just wanna ask girls to fuck their dogs on camera or if they'll suck horse dick because "it looks hot"
I think men over here may also be like that but they are just more polite (they keep those comments to themselves to avoid being banned) or I'm I wrong? I'm a man too, but since I'm not into humans, I don't act like that. So, dunno if all men who are into females cat like that or at least ave those thoughts on their head when seeing a female zoo.
Any questions about zoosexuality or about anything else?
1-is mexico? Do you live in a safeish zone? I hear is very unsafe with the drug cartels and such. 2-Do you have new dogs now? Since I hear your partner past away. 3-If you have a new dog, have you fallen in love with him/her? Or you think you can only be inlove with one being even if that being has died?
By the way, be careful with posting to much information about yourself, that if you care to keep your zooside, hidden from trolls, bullies, bigots. Also, make unique nicknames for all your zoo related activities. Is not that uncommon for some one to use their facebook nickname or MSN nickname on a zoo forum and they end up being found later.
I'm from central America, so I speak Spanish, if you want to chat in Spanish in PMs. Though my Spanish grammar is horrendous.
No I live in the U.S. my family is from Spain mostly. My first partner died years ago and I have two female dogs now who I love and so far I'm actually quite careful online.
Bullies and bigots don't bother me much so I guess that's good.
Good to know.
I guess it because most of the bigots see that I care about my girls a lot maybe?
And I don't speak much Spanish but yeah it sucks that whenever guys and quite a few women find out I'm a Zoophile they either want me to fuck their dogs or my dogs. I hate that so much.
Yea, lots of things in this word sucks. probably their behabior is reinforced from women who actually love that kind of attention as some women who are like that must exist. Also, internet anonymity sets their sexual urges and pervyness out of leash.
Or they just think it's "hot" and treat it like a fetish.
IMO: I think they may have a fetish for stuff that is taboo. I think a zoophile is more likely to treat you in a "normal way" than a person who has a fetish for taboo stuff.
That and I'm not into the whole dog sharing thing. There's plenty of dogs that I've looked at and wanted but most of them were with people who just wanted to watch their dog getting sucked. Zoophiles haven't said anything like this to me much.
I'm honestly new to all this as well. I've been into this since I was 14 or 15. I'm a male so it's more of just a love and not so much sexual. Plus I have a wife (who has no idea I have such a strong attraction to k-9's) but I honestly didn't know there was people like me out there. I'm actually excited to start getting involved with this community!!!
Well there's more of us than people think and I'm still not one to randomly tell people that I'm a Zoophile.
Are you still active with dogs despite your marriage?
No :(. I honestly wish I was or that I could tell her and she be ok with everything. I mean I have had sexual encounters with a k-9 but i never looked for it. It just happened. But we don't even have a dog right now :/. And I'm scared to explain it to her or take a chance of her finding out.
Well if you ever decide to just take it real easy. I'm out to most of my family though there's still some trust issues.