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First, it's safer than any pick-up you'll find at the local bar. It's not that hard to do either. Lot's of the people around here do it on a daily basis and love it.

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It's your body and your choice. Even more, it's your life. Period! While the physical risks are small the legal and social risks are huge. Depending on where you live, it could be a major felony. Watching is not. It could be powerful blackmail material. Taking pictures of it is not.

At the least, demand that he participates enough to be equally at risk. If he can't accept whatever you decide, start shopping for a new boyfriend.

Relationships should be a two-way street. You shouldn't be forced into something you don't want to.

If, on the other hand, you do choose to go through with it, there isn't much risk (beside legality as caikgoch stated).

• Does he have the balls for it? Seriously, if he has been neutered, he won't have any interest in you.
• Learn some canine anatomy. It is natural for the penis to remain outside the sheath for a short period of time. If it won't go back in, a sugar solution applied to the penis will help. There are webpages out of there about this condition (Paraphimosis).
• Dog semen is safe, but some have been known to be allergic.
• Be gentle. Watch your fingernails. Dogs have feelings too.
• Socks on his paws. Prevents you from getting scratched.

I'm a male who has interests in female dogs. They are just so darn cute.

I'd say you don't.
Live your own life and don't rape yourself by forcing yourself to do such a disgusting thing then. If you really love him then you should try to get this thing out of his head.
Just leave the animals alone and live together happily as a real couple.

If you have reservations and don't want to do it, don't do it. I understand wanting to make him happy, but if its not for you, then don't worry about it.

Ever heard of the concept "enthusiastic consent"? If you feel like you are only doing it for his sake, don't do it. If the dog doesn't want to have sex with you, don't do it.

I mean, really. In a lot places bestiality is illegal. I like dogs, yet I feel awkward about having sex with them because of that, as well as the social taboo. And you are considering to let a dog fuck you, just because your boyfriend is turned on by it? I would urge you to reconsider, because you don't seem very enthusiastic about having sex with a dog.

I like caikgouch's idea. The boyfriend can have sex with the dog first. This way, you'll have some leverage in case the boyfriend ever tries to blackmail you based on bestiality charges. Even if your boyfriend is very loving right now, remember that some people change once you break up.

I think its kind of disgusting, but I'm considering doing it just to make him happy any advice?

Ive been there, I kinda AM there. Some people's goal in life is to make other people happy. If thats your thing, then do it. you could be a lot worse.

If its not, dont. Tell me you understand, and that you dont find issue with it but that it's not your thing and you'd prefer if he just tried to keep you out of it. Dont berate him for it, dont stop him from pursing it himself with his dog.

but I'm not sure if this is safe or even how to do it?

I cant really know just from the information you gave, but generally it is safe, and as for how to do it, assuming you can get your dog happy enough to do it, id say lube up, and let the dog do the work, helping out if you feel its having trouble. Pay attention to the dogs body language.

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I'd second what Susitar said. While you haven't mentioned it, I'd also be aware and wary of any feelings that you need to make him happy or else. If you say no and he reacts poorly (beyond what is acceptable disappointment/frustration) and manipulatively, that's a big red flag.

Tell him you need time to think about it, it's a giant taboo and definitely not for everybody. Maybe you can watch some porn together and you can ask him what he likes about it. Some people do it because they love animals, some people are turned on because they think it is degrading and humiliating. I would really avoid indulging the latter category.

Above all else, make sure you don't hurt the dog. Don't try to force anything. If you decide to do it you must be 100% sure of his intentions and honesty. You will give him the ability to ruin your life if the secret ever leaves the bedroom. HE MUST NEVER TELL ANYONE.

Maybe tell him you'll consider it if he gives his dog the first blowjob while you watch so you're on equal ground :)

Well what do you expect here? Mostly stating the obvious: Concern for the dog must come first. You entered out of free choice into the sexual relationship and you can always break up with your boyfriend, walk out and never seem him again. The dog can not. As "property" he can maybe act out but has otherwise little recourse, so you must let the dog lead and accept the possibility that he may not want to.

Second should be concern for yourself. "I think its kind of disgusting," is at least a sign that you should wait and think about it more. Visualize your future self looking back. Can you see yourself going to be okay with having done it? Or is there a possibility you will feel ashamed for having done it for him? I mean there is an age difference here. Of course, there's nothing inherently wrong with this 10 year difference, I'm just saying be careful you know what you want.

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